When you heard negative issues about YOU, just VIT it!
VALIDATE the information based on facts
INVESTIGATE the credibility of the sourced person
TALK directly to the persons involved
Doing all of that, you will always be on the right tract because…
RELIABILITY is the extent to which measurement is free from random errors.
We cannot please everybody. Definitely, there are persons who do not believe in you. Some people finds you too arrogant. While others feel envious because of what you have. That is something we cannot control. It’s a myriad of perspectives, attitudes and interests.
The best way to sidestep different landmines is to be true to yourself. Detractors causes pain to destroy you, but God uses it to develop you. They meant it for harm but God meant it for good. Sometimes it makes us weak but in a split seconds you will feel the divine interruption. When God works on it, there will be anointing of ease. No matter what they think of you, if you personally know who you are will turned out light.
Let me share you my story, I am fascinated helping my clients the best way I can until one team drag my name into malicious controversy that I was taking advantage on them. For the benefit of the doubt they conduct an investigation. The thing is they never had a concrete evidence against me. Maybe they have the right to do that, but they should also face the consequence of putting my name in shame. It’s like spreading a feather along the street, now that they prove they were wrong there’s nothing they can do no matter how they try to pick it up, they can’t have it all. This time they are doing it again and again. Yes I was definitely hurt! how many times do i need to count their wrong move? This is certainly harassment- Character Assassination. The easiest way to release the pain is to counter them, blow by blow. My heart says i will not give them the pleasure to enjoy what they are doing. A week after, my mind is now capable of rational thought not to hurt anyone but to teach them how to do it in a professional and legal way. I have decided to file a case whoever is liable for this unjust and baseless investigation team. I’m finding the right time. Until God lifted me up in a mysterious ways. I was about to discontinue helping others when my heart is aching but God gave me the COURAGE to do the right thing -”TO FORGIVE, Negative thinkers”.
The best thing to do is to focus on your work. Assess your working abilities and make it a point to do your job well. If you do, then it doesn’t really matter what other people might say. As long as you live with a heart full of love to our fellowmen. God loves a person who lend a helping hand. So while others gets mad at you, start doing good to your family, relatives, friends and others. By word of mouth, will widespread who you really are. Life is short, use maximum time on those few things that get the greatest results. At the end of the day, you can sleep well because of all the good things you have made. Indeed, you please God.
